Curvy Girls (Big Ladies) & Thin Boyfriends: Stella’s story

Usually, plus size ladies get harsh comments about their relationships with thin men. Most of us have received funny and demoralizing comments like (“She has a boyfriend? What is wrong with the world?” or “These two had sex?! Oh god, why”). Comments of that nature are not only offensive but also can be hurtful.

The question of size or race in this day and age should be irrelevant. The fact is two people fell in love with something deeper than an outer appearance. If anyone has a problem with it then they should keep it within themselves. And not bother people who want feel one of the greatest gifts we have in life; love. To have love, give it and receive it is a gift and a privilege that should not be dictated by looks.

Let’s read Stella's short story and find out how love inspires a better us.

I get a lot of snide remarks and dirty looks from thinner women because of my fiancé and even when I was with other men in the past. I’m not a small girl, I’ve been ridiculed my entire life because of my weight. But I’ve always heard the classic ” you have such a beautiful face” comments; like my face is the only nice thing about me. I’ve always had what most would call “good looking” men in my life. I found them attractive, I didn’t care of anyone else did. I’ve always attracted thinner men. I think honestly people want to have a problem with the thick/thin relationship because it goes against what social media says is acceptable, we as the public have been so impacted by those fake standards that most people can’t even make up their own minds. I honestly believe those men were attracted to me because I Am Beautiful and I’m Confident. Confidence is a beautiful quality ladies. Believe in yourselves and it will shine through.

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